Is a two way street.
Last night I blogged about the way I was feeling. Relating to folk in my life. Ninety percent or more of it was about family members who don’t trust me in any way.
One person saw the tiny part that was about them and said ‘if you don’t like it you know what you can do’
Well I do I can cut out so called family that continue to destroy me mentally. I can stop supporting folk that use me continually then turn their back on me. I can realise that those who try n keep me rooted in the past and not see the changes I’ve made are only making things worse.
When you hear or read something that might refer to you. Try reading all the other stuff that is there as well and take responsibility for you part in that. That part goes for me to. I need to take responsibility for my actions and recognize the changes I’ve made and make sure I stay changed and don’t let others drag me back to my part behaviour.
I won’t be around online for a while folks I need to work out why people treat me the way they do! MOSTLY FAMILY MEMBERS it has to be said.
Well folks after eating at Morrison’s earlier the day was getting worse. I’d went for a stroll on the sand at Kirkcaldy while waiting on the time to pick up my car.
My back was getting so painful, with the arthritis in my spine.
Then my phone call got answered. The voice at the other end was liquid gold. Filling my heart with so much joy. My best friend and I spoke for a while. I didn’t get any pictures taken, I collected so few stones, the purpose for the stroll I was even late in picking up my car.
I didn’t care! Walking back away from the sand my back got worse I was in so much pain but I didn’t give a jot.
We had spoken and that was worth any amount of pain.
So now I’m a happy happy bloody sore auld man!
When we dream
Our lives are filled with hope
When hope is lost
There is no future
I deserve no future
I hope I have the strength
To do what’s needed!
Now this has awesome lyrics and fills me with hope for the future.
A thought that keeps me going and my dreams alive!
I was thinking about being more positive found these and thought they might help others to.
When we make mistakes rather than focusing on how negative they make us feel just remember they also taught us something.
Last but not least, when others have hurt us forgive them because if you don’t then you’ll find peace harder to find.
In this life we all have problems and obstacles to overcome. What we need to remember is we have the strength to handle anything if WE CHOSE to.
When those obstacles involve others the best way to show your past the obstacle is to be happy. Show that your better than what ever the obstacle was.
So if your in that position right now be happy and enjoy your life and show the person that caused the obstacle your better of without them.
I’ve been in the position that I’ve caused problems for someone i loved so much and that was my fault and my problem no one else’s.
I hope the person I caused problems for goes on to have a happy full life and sticks their middle finger up at me for causing the problems to start with.
This is something we should always remember when someone hurts us or causes us problems. Karma is all knowing and will come back and bite us on the bum. So if you cause others problems then those problems will come back to you a thousand fold.
This is national Depression Awareness week.
As someone who is troubled with this hellish illness I’d like to ask you all.
If you come into contact with a depressive then please remember the way they act when down/depressed is not their fault be patient with them and help them or at least don’t make them feel worse. Please
Remember we do not have a choice the way we are hurts us as much as it may hurt others!!!!